Not all relationships are symbiotic; not all situations require a balance of give & take. There is no right/ wrong in receiving without giving - or vice versa.
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I expected this to manifest as a situation where I either felt guilty for being on the receiving end of something, or felt annoyed because I wasn't getting any return for my work.
Instead, it became an analysis of my relationships - which ones are symbiotic? Which ones are codependent? Is it the same thing? Which ones are one-timers, which ones are long term? Is there a relationship that isn't symbiotic, in my life, in the long term?
Hopefully, this will become a posting or two (or five) for my meanderings page. There is a lot to think about, when it comes to relationships, how we are programmed for them and to them and through them. It's easy to talk about change for self and empowerment, but putting it into practice requires changing relationships.
Lot's to think about.
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LIR 22214 Hagalaz & UrazR
Old foundations, old rules, crumple under your new truths. As the truths fulfill your happiness, it's time to create a new foundation.
I hope you have a great day!
-Lila
I expected this to manifest as a situation where I either felt guilty for being on the receiving end of something, or felt annoyed because I wasn't getting any return for my work.
Instead, it became an analysis of my relationships - which ones are symbiotic? Which ones are codependent? Is it the same thing? Which ones are one-timers, which ones are long term? Is there a relationship that isn't symbiotic, in my life, in the long term?
Hopefully, this will become a posting or two (or five) for my meanderings page. There is a lot to think about, when it comes to relationships, how we are programmed for them and to them and through them. It's easy to talk about change for self and empowerment, but putting it into practice requires changing relationships.
Lot's to think about.
*****************************
LIR 22214 Hagalaz & UrazR
Old foundations, old rules, crumple under your new truths. As the truths fulfill your happiness, it's time to create a new foundation.
I hope you have a great day!
-Lila
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